Care Leavers Month: Jake’s Journey to Independence
Each year, young people leave care and are expected to navigate adulthood often without the safety net of a stable home, family support or financial security. Care Leavers Month is a chance to recognise their resilience and to highlight the difference dedicated support can make. This is Jake*’s story.
*Name was changed for privacy reasons
Early Life and Challenges
Jake grew up in a home affected by addiction, instability and trauma. From a young age he experienced neglect and was later placed into foster care. He moved frequently between foster placements and children’s homes, and school became increasingly difficult. Undiagnosed ADHD and the impact of trauma led to behavioural challenges that were often misunderstood. His education ended early and without formal qualifications.
At 18, Jake aged out of the care system. He was told he needed to leave his supported accommodation but was only offered hostel housing, an environment that triggered past trauma. With no other safe option, he stayed temporarily on a family member’s sofa. He had no permanent home and no clear support network as he attempted to transition into adult life.
Becoming Homeless and Asking for Help
Jake was referred to 1625 Independent People’s Intensive Support Service at this point. He was technically homeless, struggling with anxiety and depression and navigating probation requirements. The first goal was to build trust. Jake had been let down by adults throughout his life, and consistent, dependable support became the foundation for everything that followed.
Building Stability
With support, Jake was eventually offered his own flat. He was helped through every step, signing the tenancy, setting up utilities, registering for council tax and choosing essential items to furnish his home. This was the first time he had a space that was his own.
Jake’s mental and physical health were also prioritised. He began regularly attending GP appointments for medication reviews, reconnected with mental health support and registered with a dentist after years of untreated pain. His support worker helped restart the process for an ADHD assessment. Although the waiting list was long, his GP recorded a probable diagnosis, which allowed him to apply for the correct financial support.
Financial Security and Future Planning
Jake had never managed a household or budget before. He received help applying for Universal Credit and then for Limited Capability for Work and Personal Independence Payment. This increased financial support gave him breathing space to stabilise rather than constantly being in crisis.
With housing and income secured, Jake was supported to focus on his goals. He enrolled in one-to-one computer skills sessions, began working on his English and Maths through mentoring and completed training to gain his CSCS card, opening up opportunities in construction. He also applied for his first passport with plans to travel abroad in the future, something he had always hoped for.
Looking Forward
Jake now has a stable home, increased financial independence and a clearer path toward education and employment. He continues to receive mental health support, and for the first time, feels able to plan for his future rather than simply survive the present.
Why Stories Like Jake’s Matter
Too many young people leave care without the security most of us take for granted, a safe place to live, adults they can rely on and opportunities to build a future. Jake’s story shows what is possible when young people are given time, trust and support rather than deadlines and expectations.
This Care Leavers Month, we are celebrating the strength of care-experienced young people and calling for continued support beyond the age of 18. No young person should have to face becoming independent alone.